Many early-nineteenth-century slaveholders considered themselves
"masters" not only over slaves, but also over the institutions of
marriage and family. According to many historians, the privilege of
mastery was reserved for white males. But as many as one in ten
slaveholders--sometimes more--was a widow, and as Kirsten E. Wood
demonstrates, slaveholding widows between the American Revolution
and the Civil War developed their own version of mastery.
Because their husbands' wills and dower law often gave women
authority over entire households, widowhood expanded both their
domestic mandate and their public profile. They wielded direct
power not only over slaves and children but also over white
men--particularly sons, overseers, and debtors. After the
Revolution, southern white men frequently regarded powerful widows
as direct threats to their manhood and thus to the social order. By
the antebellum decades, however, these women found support among
male slaveholders who resisted the popular claim that all white men
were by nature equal, regardless of wealth. Slaveholding widows
enjoyed material, legal, and cultural resources to which most other
southerners could only aspire. The ways in which they did--and did
not--translate those resources into social, political, and economic
power shed new light on the evolution of slaveholding society.