The reconciliation of North and South following the Civil War
depended as much on cultural imagination as on the politics of
Reconstruction. Drawing on a wide range of sources, Nina Silber
documents the transformation from hostile sectionalism to
sentimental reunion rhetoric. Northern culture created a notion of
reconciliation that romanticized and feminized southern society. In
tourist accounts, novels, minstrel shows, and popular magazines,
northerners contributed to a mythic and nostalgic picture of the
South that served to counter their anxieties regarding the
breakdown of class and gender roles in Gilded Age America. Indeed,
for many Yankees, the ultimate symbol of the reunion process, and
one that served to reinforce Victorian values as well as northern
hegemony, was the marriage of a northern man and a southern woman.
Southern men also were represented as affirming traditional gender
roles. As northern men wrestled with their nation's increasingly
global and aggressive foreign policy, the military virtues extolled
in Confederate legend became more admired than reviled. By the
1890s, concludes Silber, northern whites had accepted not only a
newly resplendent image of Dixie but also a sentimentalized view of
postwar reunion.